Looking for a special girl to be your girlfriend is challenging and even scary for most guys. Finding the girl of your dreams can take time. Here are some tips to get started.
Step One: Get Yourself Ready
Appearance matters, especially for first impressions. Take care of yourself, wear clean clothes, bathe regularly, brush your hair and teeth. Girls like guys who take care of themselves. Be positive and it'll show when you talk to girls. Make the best of what you have, physically and emotionally.
Step Two: Look for what you Like
Make a list of what you're looking for in a girlfriend. Think about girls that you've known (or seen on television or in movies) and list the traits that you find attractive. Is she tall, short, red-haired, blonde? Is she an artist or a musician? Is she smart and ambitious or ready to party? Is she funny or quiet and introspective? Are you looking for something serious or something fun? It seems straight forward, but once you know what you are looking for, it's easier to find it!
Step Three: Get out There
If you're not already involved in activities where there are eligible girls, get out there and find stuff to do. Don't be shy. It takes practice and you may not find the perfect girl the first time out. That's OK, speak up and start conversations. Smile and flirt. You'll never meet Ms. Right until you get over your own fears to talk to girls.
Step Four: Get to Know Her
If you've gotten past the initial conversation and find that you like a girl, keep the conversation going. Ask her on a date and see where that takes you! Be sure to set the tone that you're interested in dating, not just being friends.
Step Five: Take it to the Next Level
If you've gone on a few dates and things are progressing, it's time to decide if she's the girl for you. If you really like her and you've taken the time to get to know one another, it might be time to ask her to be your girlfriend. Be direct and tell her how you feel!
- Remember the golden rule: treat others the way you want to be treated
- Have fun! Girls are more attracted to guys who are not stressed out or serious
- Your friends can probably help you find girls who fit what you're looking for, don't be afraid to ask them for help!